Summary
Bishop Grant delivers a powerful message on the often-overlooked command to 'be kind one to another' from Ephesians 4:32. He emphasizes that kindness is not optional or conditional but a direct command from God that requires no preconditions. The pastor illustrates this through the story of David seeking to show kindness to Jonathan's descendants, finding Mephibosheth and restoring him to the king's table. He argues that our breakthrough and spiritual progress may be hindered not by lack of faith or prayer, but by our failure to demonstrate kindness to one another. The message challenges believers to examine their hearts and relationships, emphasizing that kindness has the power to open doors for restoration, ministry, and God's blessings in our lives.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, we come before You today with open hearts, ready to receive what You have for us in this time together. We ask that You would speak to each of us individually and help us to be receptive to Your Holy Spirit's leading. Remove any barriers in our hearts and minds that would prevent us from hearing Your voice clearly. Help us to approach this discussion with humility and a willingness to grow. We pray that through our time together, You would accomplish Your will and purpose in our lives. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.
Key Verses
- Ephesians 4:32
- 2 Samuel 9:1
- Psalm 63
- Genesis 50
- Exodus 2
Questions
1. Bishop Grant says that kindness is a command, not a suggestion. Why do you think God made kindness a command rather than just a recommendation?
2. The pastor mentions that we often act like 'Hollywood' - putting on a facade when asked 'How are you doing?' How can genuine kindness help us move beyond surface-level relationships?
3. David sought out anyone from Saul's house to show kindness to, despite Saul being his greatest enemy. What does this teach us about extending kindness to those who have hurt us?
4. The message suggests that our breakthrough might be hindered by our lack of kindness rather than lack of faith or prayer. How does this challenge your perspective on spiritual growth?
5. Mephibosheth called himself a 'dead dog,' yet David restored him to eat at the king's table forever. How does this picture of restoration encourage you in your own relationship with God?
6. Bishop Grant shared that every born-again believer has the nature of Jesus within them, including the ability to be kind. What are some practical ways we can tap into this divine nature daily?
7. The pastor mentioned that kindness opens doors for ministry and breakthrough, using Moses as an example. Can you think of a time when showing kindness opened unexpected opportunities in your life?
8. How can we distinguish between being genuinely kind versus being kind only when we feel like it or when others deserve it?
Life Application
This week, identify one person in your life with whom you've had difficulty or tension. Make a conscious effort to show them genuine kindness - whether through words, actions, or service - without expecting anything in return. Ask God to help you see them through His eyes and to demonstrate His love through your kindness toward them.
Key Takeaways
- Kindness is a direct command from God, not optional or conditional based on feelings or circumstances
- Every born-again believer has the divine nature and ability to be kind because Christ lives within them
- Our spiritual breakthroughs may be hindered by our lack of kindness toward others rather than lack of faith or prayer
- Kindness has the power to open doors for restoration, ministry opportunities, and God's blessings in our lives
- God's loving kindness toward us, despite our failures and sins, should motivate us to show the same kindness to others
Ending Prayer
Lord Jesus, thank You for this reminder of Your command to be kind to one another. We confess that we have often failed in this area, allowing pride, hurt, and unforgiveness to harden our hearts toward others. Help us to remember that You have been incredibly kind to us, forgiving our sins and restoring us to relationship with You. Give us the strength and grace to extend that same kindness to others, especially those who have hurt us or are difficult to love. Break down the walls of bitterness and pride in our hearts, and help us to be instruments of Your love and restoration in the lives of others. May our kindness be a reflection of Your character and open doors for Your purposes to be fulfilled in and through us. In Jesus' precious name we pray, Amen.